Before when I talked about what I'm looking for in the opposite gender, I mentioned responsibility. It's very important for my partner to be responsible, and responsibility comes with maturity and experience. I also mentioned how I want that person to feel responsible over me, just as I would feel responsible over him.
I'm starting to figure out that there is another key aspect that I'd require: reliability. My partner would need to be reliable. Reliable emotionally, too.
There is a difference between being responsible and being reliable. I guess when you're responsible, you are capable of taking great care of yourself. When you're reliable, you're able to consistently come through for someone else.
I feel like this is a difficult quality to find, especially in today's world when everyone is out for themselves, and relationships and even marriages end when one person is having a bad moment.
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